Echo
SAY:
"NT$[X]..."
Say it with a thoughtful tone. Not shock. Like you're processing it carefully.
Pause
Say nothing for 15 to 30 seconds. Count in your head if needed. It will feel uncomfortable. That is exactly why it works.
What happens during the silence: the recruiter's brain starts working against their own offer.
They improve the number before you speak. Go to Step 3.
They wait for you. Go to Step 3.
Redirect
SAY:
"Thank you. I'm excited about this opportunity and the team. I'd love to take a day or two to review the full package. Could you send me the complete offer details in writing, including the bonus structure and benefits?"
Why it works: you did not say yes. You did not say no. You showed enthusiasm while buying time to prepare a real counter.
Follow up by email: "Thank you for the conversation today. I'm excited about the opportunity. Could you send the full offer details in writing so I can review the complete package?"
You're ready for the counteroffer email (Template T3).
Go to Counteroffer Template →Pair silence with warmth. After the pause, lead with genuine enthusiasm before asking for the written offer. Research shows this combination neutralizes the likeability penalty women sometimes face when negotiating.